Are you or your child
suicidal or having feelings of despair?
If you ever
think your child is actively contemplating suicide, move quickly. Here is what
the experts suggest you do in this situation:
- · Don't leave your child alone for even one minute
- · As them if he/she intends to hurt thesleves
- · Tell him or her that you and he/she can work out this problem,and reassure them that you are there for them,don't just talk REALLY listen
- · Be kind and comforting and don't yell
- · Remove all weapons from the home
Call the
National Suicide Hotline for advice (1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-784-2433;
1-800-273-TALK or 1-800-273-8255).
If your own
doctor can’t see your child immediately, take him straight to the emergency
room for evaluation.
What is suicide?
Suicide is
the process of purposely ending one's own life. The way societies view suicide
varies widely according to culture and religion. For example, many Western
cultures, as well as mainstream Judaism, Islam, and Christianity tend to view
killing oneself as quite negative. One myth about suicide that may be the
result of this view is considering suicide to always be the result of a mental
illness. Some societies also treat a suicide attempt as if it were a crime.
However, suicides are sometimes seen as understandable or even honorable in
certain circumstances, such as in protest to persecution (for example, hunger
strike), as part of battle or resistance (for example, suicide pilots of World
War II; suicide bombers) or as a way of preserving the honor of a dishonored
person (for example, killing oneself to preserve the honor or safety of family
members).
Nearly 1
million people worldwide commit suicide each year, with anywhere from 10
million to 20 million suicide attempts annually. About 30,000 people reportedly
kill themselves each year in the United States. The true number of suicides is
likely higher because some deaths that were thought to be an accident, like a
single-car accident, overdose, or shooting, are not recognized as being a
suicide. Suicide is the eighth leading cause of death in males and the 16th
leading cause of death in females. The higher frequency of completed suicides
in males versus females is consistent across the life span. In the United
States, boys 10-14 years of age commit suicide twice as often as their female
peers. Teenage boys 15-19 years of age complete suicide five times as often as
girls their age, and men 20-24 years of age commit suicide 10 times as often as
women their age. Gay, lesbian, and other sexual minority youth are more at risk
for thinking about and attempting suicide than heterosexual teens.
Suicide is
the third leading cause of death for people 10-24 years of age. Teen suicide
statistics for youths 15-19 years of age indicate that from 1950-1990, the
frequency of suicides increased by 300% and from 1990-2003, that rate decreased
by 35%. However, from 2000-2006, the rate of suicide has gradually increased,
both in the 10-24 years and the 25-64 years old age groups. While the rate of
murder-suicide remains low at 0.0001%, the devastation it creates makes it a
concerning public-health issue.
The rate of
suicide can vary with the time of year, as wells as with the time of day. For
example, the number of suicides by a train tend to peak soon after sunset and
about 10 hours earlier each day. Although professionals like police officers
and dentists are thought to be more vulnerable to suicide than others,
important flaws have been found in the research upon which those claims are
based.
As opposed
to suicidal behavior, self-mutilation is defined as deliberately hurting
oneself without meaning to cause one's own death. Examples of self-mutilating
behaviors include cutting any part of the body, usually of the wrists.
Self-tattooing is also considered self-mutilation. Other self-injurious
behaviors include self-burning, head banging, pinching, and scratching
Causes of suicide:
What are some possible
causes of suicide?
Although the
reasons why people commit suicide are multifaceted and complex, life
circumstances that may immediately precede someone committing suicide include
the time period of at least a week after discharge from a psychiatric hospital
or a sudden change in how the person appears to feel (for example, much worse
or much better). Examples of possible triggers (precipitants) for suicide are
real or imagined losses, like the breakup of a romantic relationship, moving,
loss (especially if by suicide) of a friend, loss of freedom, or loss of other
privileges.
Firearms are
by far the most common methods by which people take their life, accounting for
nearly 60% of suicide deaths per year. Older people are more likely to kill
themselves using a firearm compared to younger people. Another suicide method
used by some individuals is by threatening police officers, sometimes even with
an unloaded gun or a fake weapon. That is commonly referred to as "suicide
by cop." Although firearms are the most common way people complete
suicide, trying to overdose on medication is the most common means by which
people attempt to kill themselves
In Jacksonville Florida
where can I go to get help?
- · Act Corporation (Crisis Center)
1220 Willis Avenue
Daytona Beach, FL 32114
Admin Phone: (904) 947
- 4270
Fax: (386)
226 – 0474
Crisis Line:
(800) 539 – 4228
Available 24
hours.
www.actcorp.org
1150 Red
John Road
Daytona
Beach, FL 32114
- · Alachua County Crisis Center (Crisis Center)
218 Southeast 24th Street
Gainesville, Florida 32641
Admin Phone: (352) 264
– 6785
Fax: (352) 264 – 6777
Crisis Line: (352) 264
– 6789
Available 24 hours.
http://www.alachuacounty.us/
- · Apalachee Center (Crisis Center)
2634 Capital Circle Northeast
Tallahassee, FL 32308
Admin Phone: (850) 523
– 3333; (800) 342 – 0744
24 hour evaluation and admissions.
www.apalacheecenter.org
- · Clay County Behavioral Health Center – Access Team (Crisis Center)
3232 County Road 220
Middleburg, FL 32068
Admin Phone: (904) 291
– 5561
Fax: (904) 291 – 5289
- · First Call for Help, United Way (Crisis Center)
P.O. Box 41428
Jacksonville, FL 32203 – 1428
Admin Phone: (904) 390 – 3291
Fax: (904) 390 – 3219
Crisis Line: (800) 346 – 6185
Crisis hotline services only
- · Alternative choices for depression healing:
-What Is an
Alternative Therapy?
A health
treatment that is not classified as standard Western medical practice is
referred to as complementary and alternative medicine (CAM). CAM encompasses a
variety of approaches. They include everything from diet and exercise to mental
conditioning and lifestyle changes. Examples of CAM therapies include:
Acupuncture
Aromatherapy
Biofeedback
Chiropractic
treatments
Guided
imagery
Dietary
supplements
Hypnosis
Massage
therapy
Meditation
Relaxation
Yoga
Which Herbal Supplements
Can Help Depression?
There is a
wide variety of herbal supplements that people believe can treat many illnesses.
For depression, St. John's Wort is a common herbal supplement that is used.
St. John's
wort has been used for medical purposes in other parts of the world for
thousands of years. But research findings have been mixed.
Using an
herbal supplement requires caution and should be taken only after consulting
your doctor. This is because supplements could interact with medicines that you
are also taking, and use could be dangerous for people with certain conditions.
Your doctor can help you weigh the risks and potential benefits. That way, you
can make an informed decision